10 Stay At Home Valentine’s Day Ideas…After You Put The Kids To Bed.
It’s that time! Love is in the air. Valentine’s Day is only a few days away. So, what are you going to do? Do you have big plans, small plans, or are you still trying to make plans? Well, I have 10 stay at home Valentine’s Day ideas…after you put the kids to bed…just for you, so keep reading!
As a mom of 4, quality time with my husband can be limited, so it’s pretty valued. I always look forward to us spending time together, having date nights and enjoying each other’s company without 4 little ones in between us. But, reality is we don’t always have that luxury. Finding a baby sitter is hard because you have to be so careful who you trust with your children. Both of our families live hundreds of miles away, so we don’t always get the chance to go out. But, when we do get that chance, oh hunny, we take full advantage. And the efforts usually end up with us both sleep. 🤦♀️🤣 But, we did get a chance to get dressed up and act like we had a full night of fun ahead of us.
We understand that at this moment in our life, we don’t have the luxury of going out all the time for date night, so we have become creative and learned to date at home. Stay at home Valentine’s Day ideas can actually be a lot of fun and allows you to be creative.
So if you are like us, and have a house full of little ones that will not allow you to enjoy a night out on the town, put the kids to bed, and bring the town to you!
Here are 10 Stay At Home Valentine’s Day Ideas…After You Put The Kids To Bed.
1. Camp out on the deck if the weather permits. If not, use the living room.
Changing the scenery can always help spice things up and set the mood. Once the kids go to sleep, set up the deck (or living room) with romantic lights and music. Don’t forget the wine and the strawberries. Hopefully the stars are bright and you can both gaze into the moonlight.
2. Make a play list of music that is special to your relationship.
Play the songs and recall where you were and how that song made you feel. Each of you make your own play list. It will bring back romantic memories that the other one forgot. You will find yourself singing and smirking at each other as memories stimulate emotions.
3. Role Play The First Date.
Try to reenact the exact day that you met or went on your first date. Try to remember the exact conversation and the language that was used. See if you can remember what you had on and if you were really as fly/sexy as you thought you were. You will find yourself laughing at each other and/or not believing it really went down like that.
4. Play The Game Would You Rather
This stay at home Valentine’s Day idea can be a lot of fun. If you have been together for a long time, you will be surprised how your partner’s mind and likes have changed from when you first met. Don’t be surprised if the answers you thought they would give are not the answers they actually say. This is a good way to learn each other, because we are always changing. If you are new to the relationship, this game will definitely give you insight on your partner.
5. Photo Shoot of Each Other
First rule…make sure this is not on a device/camera your kids have access to!!!! (You will have a lot of explaining to do!!) Perform a photo shoot to your partner’s liking. Take turns being the photographer and tell your model exactly how you want them to pose.
6. Blind Folded Taste Test
Give your partner food while they are blind folded and see if they can guess what they are tasting. This is your game….the tastes are up to you!! 😇😈❤️
7. Prepare a Romantic Dinner Together
Cooking together can actually be kind of fun and romantic….especially if you don’t have to cook chicken nuggets and fries for the little ones. Lol. Prepare a meal together and then, go get dressed up to enjoy a candle light dinner. It may seem really basic, but having kids doesn’t always allow for these cliche’ moments. So they are usually valued.
8. Netflix and Chill Never Gets Old.
With a house full of kids, it’s not often we’re watching any R rated movies. So if you can stay up long enough..watch a few good movies that you don’t have to pause, fast forward, or turn the volume all the way down.
9. Look at old photos of each other.
Take a stroll back down memory lane and reminisce on old photos. If you have old cards and love letters you wrote to each other, read those again. Looking at these will remind you of why you fell in love with each other.
10. Talk About The Future
Reflect on how far you have grown in your relationship and express how you want to continue to grow. Mindsets change over the years, but communication can keep you on the same page. A powerful couple is one who walks down the same path together!!
Bonus: If the kids are still sleep… You Know What To DO!! ❤️😍💋
I hope these 10 At Home Valentine’s Day ideas help make your Valentine’s Day a romantic evening that will be remembered forever.
Comment down below and tell me your tips and ideas that will help make the Stay At Home Valentine’s Day evening a success. I love trying new things, so I am excited to hear your thoughts.
Hugs and kisses to all…..Happy Valentine’s Day!!
💕Love, Donna💕
28 Comments
Tanya
I love this!! Thanks Donda!❤
Donna Stephens
Hey Tan,
So glad you enjoyed this! Thanks for visiting! Enjoy your Valentine’s Day!!
Andrea
Thanks Donna!
You are the bomb!
Thanks for those simple ideas.
❤️
Donna Stephens
Hey Ma!!
Thanks for reading!! You are the bomb too!! ❤️ Let me know how the ideas went for you!
Love ya!
Pam
Love this!!!!😘
Donna Stephens
Hey Auntie Pammie,
Thank you! Let me know which ideas you tried out and how much fun you had!! Happy Valentine’s Day.
Sierra
These are great ideas! Netflix and chill definitely never gets old. Would you rather is always fun too! Sierra Beautifully Candid
Donna Stephens
Hey Sierra,
Yes, I love Netflix, and there are so many good movies on there..and would you rather is always fun. As soon as you think you know your spouse, you are surprised by their answers. Lol. Enjoy your Valentine’s Day and let me know how the ideas turned out for you!
Olufunke
I love this!
And the first date role play, that’s awesome and fun. I can see that bringing back lots of memories and sure to make love stronger.
Hilary Jones
These are great ideas! Especially for parents that don’t have someone to babysit their kids on Valentine’s Day, but would still like to spend time with their spouse. I love the song playlist idea. Definitely plan on doing that.
Donna Stephens
Hey Hilary,
Thanks for stopping by! That’s right, we may not have a sitter, but we can’t let the kids stop our quality time and romance. The playlist is one of my favorites. We do it often. So I hope you will it enjoy too! Let me know how it goes and Happy Valentine’s Day.
Lynn
Great ideas to enjoy date nights at home. It’s not always easy to get a babysitter! Love the ideas of making a playlist and cooking together.
Donna Stephens
Hey Lynn,
Getting a baby sitter for us is far and in between. We used to get upset about it, like man, will we ever go out again, but then came to the realization the safety of our kids are what’s most important. So we learned how to have fun in the house. We love music, so the playlist is always a favorite for us. And you can’t go wrong with good music and good food! Enjoy your Valentine’s Day and let me know how the ideas worked out for you!
Kelly| Citytoast2southerntea
I love the role play your first date ides. Will have to try this.
Donna Stephens
Hey Kelly,
Yes, try the role play. It was so much fun when we did it. Of course, my husband had to change the story a bit to make him look better, but it was hilarious to reflect. We have even told our kids the story and had them act it out…now you are talking about big time laughs as you watch your little ones try to reenact you. Enjoy it and let me know how much fun you had! Happy Valentines Day.
BEth
Love this! These are great ideas and easy to do!
Donna Stephens
Hey Beth! Thanks for stopping by! Glad you enjoyed the ideas. Let me know how much fun you had with them! Have a great Valentines Day!
Shannah
Me and my husband have been married for 25 years come October. This year he won’t be home for Valentine’s Day since we are in the middle of a relocation and he went to start the new job and look for us a house. These are really great ideas though and I will definitely be saving to do when we are together again.
Kristen Gardiner
I love the idea of making a playlist of songs special to your relationship. Music can bring back so many memories!
Olivia
I love every single one of these ideas! I did a post similar to this on my blog. Love to see completely different ideas!
Maggie
These are some awesome ideas! The blind taste test is my favorite, I think we will give it a try tonight!
Danielle
These are great ideas! Thanks for sharing!
Chelsae
Great ideas! Even for when it’s not Valentine’s Day!
Catherine Irwin
What loverly ideas especially roleplaying the first date. Thanks for sharing.
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